Action Plan – Putting It All Together
Tell your spouse that you are committed to her. That despite past offenses and wrongs between you two, that you remain and will remain committed until death do you part. Tell your spouse that you recognize the future may not always be smooth but that you believe the road traveled together is better than the one traveled alone.
MEAP #8 – Don’t Make Kids The Center Of Your Marriage
By contrast, if you make your spouse the center of your family, you’re communicating a wonderful message to both your spouse as well as your children – that the relationship mom and dad have is important, and that a healthy marriage is a priority.
MEAP #7 – Fuggedaboutit…
you will never be bringing this past offense up to your spouse ever again, especially in the context of a fight or argument. It’s very common for a spouse with a grudge to remind the other partner of a past wrong or offense in the heat of an argument… But I probably don’t have to tell you that