Though I’m not totally sure why, there is no doubt that marriage counseling is a dirty word in some circles. There’s definitely a stigma associated with marriage counseling–as if it means you are somehow “weak” if you participate in such an activity. I’d like to suggest to you that the opposite is actually true. If someone undergoes marriage counseling, this is a person strong enough to understand that he needs help…that he *can’t* do it alone. Is there anything wrong with that?
You might be surprised at this, but many couples who have the best marriages actually underwent marriage counseling at one point in their marriage (yep, marriage counseling actually works!). Sure, there’s an element of humility in all of it…there’s definitely a “swallow your pride” factor that has to be dealt with. But it is worth it…
I don’t know where you’re at today in your marriage…perhaps things are 100% fine between you and your spouse. If so, great! You are fortunate. For many though, our marriages could use some improvement…and if that’s you reading this, then for goodness sake just admit it.
You’ll feel better. 
And make sure you get the help you need…Marriage counseling does not have to be a big ordeal. It does not have to go on forever. And no, you don’t have to involve your spouse if you don’t want to. Heck, it could be as simple as just talking to an accredited counselor online one or two times. Is that really a big deal?
If you feel that online marriage counseling of this sort if something that can help you, I recommend you talk to one of my two recommended counselors. I can guarantee you’ll feel better after you do…