UMBA #8 – Don’t Hold Grudges
I think the reason we find it so hard to let go of grudges is because of something we said earlier—namely, that all of us are offenders. And that means, of course, that we have all been offended. So in many cases, grudges come about as a result of being offended. And since we’ve been offended, we think we therefore have a “right” to hold a grudge.